Staying stocked up
The F&V (fruit and
veggie) tracker is working like magic! As one reader commented,
" I particularly like the intrinsic motivation
that kids get from "keeping score" on a chart. Makes for less
"motivating" required from mom. :) ”By branching out on the variety of F&V we are eating, we are able to increase our overall intake. Baby carrots are convenient, but trying to fill up the tracker solely with carrots will quickly lead to burn out.
Not very long ago I fell
into the rut at dinnertime of resorting to tossing the cellophane bag of
spinach leaves and the bag of baby carrots next to the main course on the
island for our vegetable almost every night.
It was the easiest way to "prepare" a veggie for dinner. Our children will need spinach aversion
therapy as adults! Just to complete the
task of eating the spinach, Jimmy would wad up a handful of spinach and pack it
into his mouth. After several chews, he
would flash a big smile, teeth smothered in green mush & flecks of chewed
up spinach. Monkey see, monkey do... the
younger siblings followed suit. Hel-looo
mother, it's time to switch the veggie menu!
Celery and red bell pepper
strips are a new addition to our repertoire and are easy to pack in
lunches. Finding tasty celery can be a gamble,
however. Sometimes it is delicious yet
other times horribly bitter. So far so
good on the Costco 4 pack of celery hearts and 6 pack of red peppers. Single serving peanut butter packets are
convenient and tasty for dipping a variety of fruits & veggies (including
carrots).
Today, my purchases in the
produce section have taken an interesting turn.
A few oranges and apples are no longer sufficient. I now am buying F&V in bulk just to keep
us stocked up - oranges by the box, 6
pack of hearts of Romaine lettuce, 3 bunches of bananas at a time. Fortunately, none of it is going to waste so
far! We are actually fighting over the pears
so as to grab one before they disappear.
Eating more F&V may mean an extra trip to the store, but that's a
fair trade-off in my mind.
Is this just a passing
phase, a F&V honeymoon? Will the
children lose steam or burn out on eating the same veggies? Will I be able to squeeze
in a trip to the store to keep us adequately stocked?
I realize that not all
children take to eating a variety of F&V.
We have one adult child who likes a narrow range of fruits and veggies. Forcing or manipulating a child to eat is a counter
productive strategy. What does work is
being a good role model, patience, and time. Scientists tell us that children's taste buds
are more sensitive to bitter taste, which accounts for the increase of veggie
consumption that often occurs as children mature into adulthood. I tell myself their taste buds will
eventually mature. In the meantime, a
"no thank you bite" (try one
bite and then say "no thank you" if one does not care to eat any
more) helps their taste buds become familiar with the flavor. It also teaches them to politely decline beyond
one bite rather than make a disrespectful "Eeewwww yuck" response.
A helpful website at http://sacredappetite.com offers concrete solutions to return to harmonious
family meals at the table, without battles or pressure. The author's goal is to teach children to
enjoy what’s good for them, not just get them to eat it.
My short-term goal is to
stay stocked up on a variety of F&V.
Next, I want to make the F&V offering at meals as appealing as is
within my power. If the veggies look
good, smell good, and taste good, we're more likely to achieve the long-term
goal of creating positive eating experiences that form the foundation for
lasting habits.
One step at a time, we are
working on building habits to eat well for a lifetime.
Having a full "range" of eaters when the kids were growing up, I couldn't agree more! I now have a 21 year old who has just "discovered" carrots are not too bad. Better late than never and A LOT of patience as a parent.
ReplyDeleteJane, I was led by your example and implemented a fruit/veg tracker on the fridge for my kids to fill in. With the added incentive of a prize each week I caught my 7 year old son writing in his fruits/veg on the calendar last night! I think he has 'bought in' to my little project! Heck, he even willing decided he would try a roasted brussel sprout last night:) (another good easy weeknight veg you might try!)
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